Take A Gander!
Ok here is my latest site, it is pretty much finished now. It uses a templating system from TELA, they make personals' packages. You install and then you skin the site from top to bottom. My first few tries at this resulted in the standard kind of site, it still looked like the original (try this for a view of the original). So I put some time and sweat into it and voila, here it is: www.oldbutnotdead.com